Every visit to Rock Island High School became easier, more comfortable, and more rewarding. I helped with different subjects every time, but they ranged from math to history to home ec. Math so far seems to be one of the more challenging subjects for the students, and is what we help with the most. Most of the math course work is in algebra and lately has been all about fractions. I have also helped the past few visits with history and geography. This included writing essays about Martin Luther King Jr., naming different countries and locations on a map, and learning about the United States Bill of Rights and Constitution. One of my favorite subjects to help with has been home ec. I love trying to figure out right along with the students all about something used in everyday life. During my last visit I helped a female student with learning conversions in the English system of measurements. This included terms like gallon, pound, inch, and teaspoon. She was asking questions about all of the different measurements and wanted examples of when I would use each. This got us talking about baking, and our favorite foods to not only bake, but also to eat. During free time in the classroom I continue to get to know the students better and learn more about their lives. As I get to know them more, I realize how people judge others and their cultures too quickly, especially using stereotypes. Once I stepped back and looked into their cultures, I began to realize that they are just as unique as ours. It's also amazing to see how the students not only become a part of the United States’ culture, but also integrate it with the culture from where they came from.
In the US, most people have stereotypes about groups and cultures that are different from their own. Stereotypes are overgeneralizations that are usually applied to a group of people whether or not they are true. When I asked others what they thought when they first thought of a refugee attending an American high school, they assumed that the student would not be as bright and probably not be able to speak English very well. After having spent time with the students and getting to know how they are doing in school, I've come to find that many of them are very bright. They try very hard and succeed in the classroom, even though they have the expectations of those around them saying that they are not as smart. In reality though, every person in the classroom I help in is just as different as any other classroom. People are too quick to lump everyone together just because they are from a different culture, and attribute one trait to everyone belonging to that culture. The students in the classroom all come from different cultures, and after spending more time with them, I have come to see that they assimilate both into their lives. One student in particular talks about the culture he was a part of in Africa and how his mom sticks to the values and beliefs associated with it at home. He also takes part in the American culture and acts most of the time like a "regular" teenager. The students even debate and explain their unique beliefs to the other students. One day they were comparing the different religions that they are a part of. Seeing how the students integrate their individual cultures into American culture shows how American culture is like a salad, full of different ingredients all combined.
Every time I go to the high school I slowly get to know the students better. After looking for how each student studies and learns information, I was able to better help them with their homework. Knowing the power stereotypes can play in my perceptions of others will allow me to learn about other cultures before assuming anything about them. This can even include helping the students to learn more about our culture, and clear up any false stereotypes they have too. Now that I understand how the students assimilate their diverse cultures into their lives here in the United States, I can play a role in helping them maintain that balance in keeping where they came from and where they are now a part of their lives.